Friendship Vs Dating: What’s Better?


Friendship or love? You are asked to make the pick umpteenth times and every time you find yourself oscillating between the extremes. That’s because it is somewhat difficult to make out the thin line between love and friendship. Finding love and friendship in one person is the biggest blessing you can have. Because it becomes really difficult to choose one over the other. Sure love can develop into friendship or vice versa. But the first time you fall in love with someone, it’s because you simply love them! There’s no other reason, no other basis for this love than mere love itself.
Friends however come into your life just like that- without any attachment and feeling. Yet you grow with them, come to enjoy life with them and most importantly love and care for them. It is this emotion, something very conscious yet innate that springs from the heart that makes friendship at least a tad more important than love.
Friendship is better in any way because at the starting of the relationship or when we date someone, we humans search how better they understand each other, they search how compatible they are. As we all know, friendship is the base of all relationships. If we talk about father daughter/son relationship or if we talk about partners relationship, friendship is needed everywhere. Friends come without expectations, lovers not so much the same. Naturally, because you develop the bond rather than forging it just because you want your friends, friendship does not carry many expectations. Yet you strive to give it all to this very delightful gift that life has bestowed with you. Indeed, you would give your all, perhaps some more, even to love. But there is always some expectation or the other from that soul you heart. Even when it is unconditional, you cannot shy away from the fact that you indeed want your love to be requited. Friendship though is more sentient which means you already know possibly what you can expect from and of them.

One of the main difference between two is that Love needs too much effort, friendship though is relaxing. You always need to be making efforts to woo your love. Relationships thrive on mutual efforts but friendship steers clear from all such obligations. Because friendship isn't demanding, you do what you want to and not because you are meant to.
At last I would like to add some quotes for friendship which you all will like:

Love can be a liability, friendship is always your asset.
Friendship is safe, love is more like restricted territory.
Love is fleeting, friendship is forever.
Friendship is fun, relationship is exhausting.
Love is attraction, friendship is emotion.
You are always more sure about your bff than your bf.
Lovers break your heart, friends fix it.
Friendship is all the love you will ever need.
Love is mushy, friendship is cushy!
Love needs too much effort, friendship though is relaxing.

ThankYou!

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